Positive Public Breastfeeding - #PositiveAboutBF

Sunday, 2 August 2015
Thanks for hopping over from Musings From A Northern Village and welcome to my post for the Keep Britain Breastfeeding Scavenger Hunt Day 2 Positive Public Feeding we have over £700 worth of breastfeeding and baby goodies up for grabs including prizes from Snoob with a breastfeeding scarf, a goodie bag from Forever Patricia and a breastfeeding necklace from Booby and the Bead.  Full details of the Grand Prize can be found here and all entries to be completed via the Rafflecopter at the bottom of this post.

When I had Isla just under 5 weeks ago, one thing I was scared off along my breastfeeding journey was if and when she needed feeding when we were out. Isla is also fed on demand which made me more nervous, I couldn't plan things around feed times. 
Its a daunting thought at first, having to get your boobs out in public. But, I had nothing to be scared of, I've now fed in public on numerous occasions as when Isla needs feeding, she needs feeding. 

My most memorable feeding experience and possibly my most positive is my first pubic feed. It was not the most glamorous of feeds and in fact it wasn't even an easy ride but it's the one which gave me some confidence, confidence for all the future feeds. 
I was bored of being stuck in the house, I couldn't drive anywhere due to my c-section and the toddler was beginning to get a little stressed not being able to do much so we ventured on the bus to the local town. I had posted to friends before hand asking for tips and advice but I was still super nervous. I had it planned, when Isla got hungry, I would head to the local Asda get Jack some lunch and feed Isla. However when  I was sitting in the Asda cafe there was a gentleman who kept staring at me, this made me terribly uncomfortable. If you read my post yesterday you will know I have a fear of feeding infront of men. I thought everything was going wrong, poor Isla was hungry and I didn't feel comfortable feeding her. Instead after Asda we headed to the local Costa Coffee, I got myself and Jack a drink and we sat on the chairs and I proceeded to feed Isla. No-one stared as I latched her on, no-one stared whilst I fed her yes people looked and glanced across whilst I was feeding but I didn't feel intimidated. 

Since this first occasion I've gone on to feed Isla whilst walking around Tesco shopping, in a garden centre, in Sainsburys cafe, walking around Ikea, in the local park, in my car on carparks. With each feed I do I gain a little more confidence, slowly I'm building it up. I still get a little nervous when needing to feed when out and about, but so far all of my public feeding experiences have been positive and memorable.

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